Category: Self Help

  • Design A Soulful Gardening Ritual in Minutes Using ChatGPT

    Design A Soulful Gardening Ritual in Minutes Using ChatGPT

    Most people water plants.

    A few turn it into something sacred.

    Imagine taking 15 minutes out of your day not just to water your plants but to slow down, breathe deep, and reconnect with something real.

    Now imagine ChatGPT helping you build that ritual. 

    Custom. 

    Personal. 

    Mindful.

    That’s what the prompt I will give below does.

    It turns your daily plant care into a soul-fuelling ritual you actually look forward to.

    But why indoor gardening deserves ritual

    Gardening indoors usually starts with good intentions.

    A few pots. A watering can. Maybe a cute monstera.

    But give it a few weeks, and most people are back to “Crap… I forgot to water the plants again.”

    Here’s the shift: Instead of seeing it as a chore what if it became a moment of stillness?

    Rituals slow us down.

    They make the ordinary feel sacred.

    When you add sight, scent, sound, and intention to gardening, something changes. 

    It stops being about “keeping plants alive.”

    It starts becoming an act of self-care.

    What this prompt actually does

    This isn’t a prompt that spits out plant care tips.

    It’s a conversation. A co-creation.

    You paste it into ChatGPT and it becomes your ritual designer.

    Here’s what it does:

    • Asks about your setup, emotional goals, and available time
    • Designs a named ritual (yep, with a title)
    • Gives you a step-by-step routine: time of day, actions, mindset shifts
    • Layers in music, scent, lighting, and touch
    • Drops in a reflection prompt
    • Even suggests how to track your mood or plant growth in a journal

    It doesn’t sound like a robot.

    It feels warm. Inviting. Almost poetic.

    Exactly how a mindful ritual should feel.

    Who this is for

    Let’s be real. This prompt isn’t for everyone.

    But if you’re any of the following you’re gonna love it:

    • City dweller with a window full of herbs and pothos
    • Remote worker who feels like every day blurs into the next
    • Overwhelmed creative who needs space to think and feel again
    • Plant lover who’s craving more meaning in their routine
    • Spiritual type who uses nature to connect inward

    This prompt is your low-effort, high-return ritual designer.

    How to use it

    Using this is dead simple.

    1. Open ChatGPT
    2. Paste this in:
    System:
    You are a ritual designer for home-based indoor gardening routines. Your goal is to help the user craft a mindful, emotionally uplifting, and sustainable indoor gardening ritual based on their current plant setup, available space, and emotional needs. Integrate sensory elements (sight, scent, touch, sound), mindset shifts, and optional meditative steps.

    Context:
    The user is looking to create a meaningful and calming gardening routine that goes beyond watering. They want to enjoy a therapeutic and immersive experience that fits within their living environment and emotional landscape.

    Instructions:
    1. Ask the user about:
    - Their plant setup (type and number of plants, location)
    - Time of day and available time
    - Emotional goals or intentions (e.g., calming anxiety, starting the day grounded)
    2. Based on their input, design a ritual including:
    - A unique and poetic name for the ritual
    - A structured step-by-step routine with timings and emotional cues
    - Sensory environment setup (e.g., lighting, music, scents)
    - A gentle reflection prompt to end the ritual
    - Optional journaling or mood tracking
    3. Ensure the ritual supports mindfulness, joy, and simplicity.

    Constraints:
    - Avoid professional botanical terms unless asked
    - Keep the ritual within 15–45 minutes
    - Make it emotionally resonant and accessible
    - No XML tags or markup in the output

    Output Format:
    Ritual Name: [A poetic title for the ritual]

    Routine Steps:
    [A detailed, beautiful sequence of actions with timing and emotional cues]

    Sensory Environment:
    - Scent:
    - Sound:
    - Light:
    - Touch:

    Reflection Prompt:
    [A gentle journaling or self-check-in question]

    Optional Journaling:
    [A 2–3 line journaling format the user can reuse]

    Estimated Duration:
    [Time in minutes]

    Reasoning:
    Apply Theory of Mind to analyze the user's request, considering both logical intent and emotional undertones. Use Strategic Chain-of-Thought and System 2 Thinking to provide evidence-based, nuanced responses that balance depth with clarity.

    User Input:
    Reply with: "Please enter your indoor gardening setup, emotional goals, and available time, and I will start the ritual design process," then wait for the user to provide their specific indoor gardening process request.

    3. It’ll ask:
     “Please enter your indoor gardening setup, emotional goals, and available time…”

    4. Answer that honestly.

    5. Your ritual arrives.

    Example:
    You tell it you’ve got a tiny balcony, 2 snake plants, and 20 mins in the morning to feel more grounded.

    Peaceful. Clear. Connected.

    Benefits you’ll Notice Immediately

    This isn’t woo-woo. It’s practical.

    Here’s what actually happens when you use it:

    • You start the day with clarity, not chaos
    • Your plants thrive but more importantly, so do you
    • You feel present in your own home again
    • That low-level stress? It starts to fade
    • You build a consistent ritual without needing motivation

    It becomes a tiny habit with deep impact.

    Beyond Gardening: How Rituals Change the Way You Live

    Here’s the real win: This prompt helps you build something way bigger than a plant routine.

    It helps you shift your energy.

    Slow down.

    Feel something.

    When you start creating rituals, even tiny ones, it enters into the rest of your life:

    • You eat slower
    • You scroll less
    • You listen more
    • You breathe deeper

    It’s not magic. It’s intention.

    And that’s what this prompt gives you.

    Try it now

    You don’t need to meditate for an hour.

    Or go to Bali.

    Or buy 20 houseplants.

    You just need 15 minutes and the prompt I gave above.

    Try it today. Let your plants become part of your healing.

  • How I Changed the Way I Learn

    How I Changed the Way I Learn

    Simple tips to learn faster & remember more 


    Learning was hard for me. 

    I used to study for hours. 

    But when it came to tests, I forgot everything. Sound familiar? 

    I learned that my old study habits were wrong.

    Here’s what helped me:

    What Doesn’t Work

    • Highlighting and rereading didn’t help me remember.
    • I felt like I knew stuff, but I didn’t.
    • Just recognizing terms isn’t the same as understanding.

    What Works Better

    I started using new strategies that made learning easier. Here are the best ones:

    Active Learning

    • Take notes in your own words.
    • Make mind maps to connect ideas.
    • Ask “how” and “why” questions to dig deeper.

    Self-Testing

    • Quiz yourself to see what you know.
    • Use flashcards or create practice tests.
    • Even wrong answers help strengthen your memory.

    Real-Life Connections

    • Use what you learn in real situations.
    • Teach the material to someone else.
    • Apply knowledge to solve problems.

    The Next Step: Overlearning

    Overlearning is practicing until it feels automatic. 

    It’s like playing a song on an instrument until it’s perfect. 

    This helps you recall information under pressure.

    Mistakes Are OK

    I learned that mistakes aren’t failures. 

    They help me see where I can improve. 

    Reviewing errors is like finding clues to do better next time.


    Learning is a journey, not a race. 

    When I stopped my old learning methods and started using these methods, everything changed. 

    Now, learning feels fun and exciting. You can try these tips too and see the difference!

  • How To Use Boredom, Frustration, and Impatience

    How To Use Boredom, Frustration, and Impatience

    Turning negative emotions into positivity

    We all feel bored, frustrated, or impatient sometimes. 

    But I learned they can help us grow. Let me share how.

    Boredom: A Call for Meaning

    Boredom is not about being lazy. 

    It’s your brain saying, “This isn’t fun!” 

    It wants something meaningful. Here’s how to deal with it:

    • Pause and think: What excites me?
    • Try new hobbies: Painting, reading, or learning a skill.
    • Find meaning: Turn boring tasks into steps toward a goal.

    Frustration: A Tool for Growth

    Frustration feels tough, but it’s like exercise for your brain. 

    It pushes you to think harder and keep trying. Handle frustration by:

    • Reframing it: Instead of “I can’t do this,” I say, “How can I solve this?”
    • Breaking tasks down: Focus on small steps.
    • Learning lessons: Frustration helps me become stronger and smarter.

    Frustration teaches us to overcome challenges.

    Impatience: A Signal of Excitement

    Impatience often comes from waiting for something good. 

    It’s linked to hope. Manage impatience by:

    • Practicing gratitude: Think about what I already have.
    • Staying mindful: Focus on the present moment.
    • Enjoying anticipation: Plan fun events and savor the wait.

    Impatience reminds us to appreciate now and the future.


    These emotions aren’t enemies. 

    Boredom shows what matters. 

    Frustration builds resilience. 

    Impatience teaches gratitude.

    Next time you feel these emotions, don’t fight them. 

    Listen to what they’re telling you. You might discover something amazing.

  • Are You Stuck in a Motivation Loop?

    Are You Stuck in a Motivation Loop?

    From Inspiration to Action

    Whenever life gets challenging I feel demotivated. 

    I search for motivational podcasts and YouTube videos to cheer myself up. 

    These videos and podcasts make me feel better by giving me hope. 

    But the effect is usually temporary and goes away after some time.

    Then, I find myself searching for more videos or new podcasts, hoping to regain that inspiration. 

    It feels like I am stuck in a loop of seeking motivation without truly moving forward.

    I realized that just feeling motivated is not enough. If I do not take real action, I keep going in circles. 

    Inspirational talks might lift my mood, but progress only happens when I step out of my comfort zone and work on my goals.

    If I want to become better at swimming, I cannot simply watch a motivational video about swimming.

    I actually have to practice every day. Those small steps might seem difficult at first, but each small victory makes me more confident.

    Now, I am trying to remind myself not to obsess too much with constant improvement and perfection. 

    It is good to want to be better, but it should not make me anxious or stressed. 

    Instead, I focus on celebrating small victories. If I manage to study for an extra hour today or complete a workout I planned, I acknowledge and appreciate the effort I put in. 

    These tiny achievements add up over time, helping me become a better version of myself without feeling overwhelmed.

    By shifting my focus from just feeling motivated to actually doing something, I am turning inspiration into action, one step at a time.

    Key Takeaways

    • Motivational podcasts and YouTube videos cheer me up
    • But it’s temporary and fades away
    • I find myself in a loop
    • Taking action helps rather than just feeling better with no action
    • Take small steps and celebrate small victories
    • Dont obsess with improvement and perfection
  • The Joy of Missing Out

    The Joy of Missing Out

    Everyone around me tells me that I must always be busy. 

    They say people should always work hard, move fast, and never stop. 

    This is called “hustle culture.” 

    It makes me think that we are not good enough if we are not always doing something. 

    But like many people out there I am also tired of this way of life. 

    I want to slow down. I want to enjoy each moment, big or small. 

    This is where I found about the “Joy of Missing Out” online while reading something.

    Also called JOMO, it means feeling happy when we do not do everything that comes our way feeling like it’s the end of the world. 

    Instead of feeling bad about not doing everything, I learned to feel calm and thankful for the peaceful time. 

    When we miss out, we have more time to rest. 

    I can read a book, take a walk, or spend time with my family. My husky named “Moon” loves to play with me. 

    I noticed I can think more clearly and feel happier. 

    I do not have to be busy to have a good life.

    Hustle culture tells us we must always work. If we are not working, we are lazy. 

    But that is not true. 

    Rest is very important. 

    When we slow down we become kinder to ourselves. 

    We learn that it is okay to do less.

    The Joy of Missing Out also made me realize that it is ok to say “no” sometimes.

    We do not have to do all things at once. 

    We can choose what matters most and sometimes it’s just taking a break.

    So take a break and say no when you want to feel happier and at peace, and sometimes take a step away from the busy world.

  • 5 Things You Should Definitely Invest Your Time Into

    5 Things You Should Definitely Invest Your Time Into

    Sometimes when I am not doing anything productive, I wonder what I should do with my free time.

    I tried a few things and enjoyed it.

    Here are the five important things I feel you should spend time on.

    Reading Books

      Books open doors to new worlds.

      When you read, you sometimes learn new things and storybooks are fun.

      Reading can help you reduce stress.

      Try reading a little every day.

      Playing Sports and Exercising

        Moving your body is important.

        Playing some sport or going to a gym keeps you healthy and strong.

        Light exercise makes me feel happy and full of energy.

        Find a sport or activity you enjoy and do it often.

        Learning New Skills

          Learning new things is exciting sometimes.

          You could learn to play a musical instrument, draw sketches, cook some delicious food, or even code.

          New skills make life interesting and can help you in the future, maybe it can make you money as well.

          Pick something you like and give it a try.

          Spending Time with Family and Friends

            Family and friends are special (only the good ones).

            Spending time with them makes you feel loved and happy.

            Make sure to have fun together often.

            Helping Others

              Helping other people is a great way to use your time.

              You can help a colleague at work, volunteer to clean the park or donate stuff to those in need.

              When you help others, You also feel good inside.


              Try to read, stay active, learn new things, spend time with loved ones, and help others.

              These activities are fun and important.

              Start today, and see how much you can grow!

            1. How To Beat Procrastination By Setting Realistic Deadlines

              How To Beat Procrastination By Setting Realistic Deadlines

              Master Time Management with Parkinson’s Law

              If you have a task pending after two weeks, you will probably take two weeks to finish it.

              If you have a task that is pending tomorrow then you will finish it today.

              Parkinson’s Law states that any work expands to fill the time available.

              If you give your task more time than necessary, it will take longer to finish.

              If you struggle with procrastination then assign limited and realistic time to any pending task.

              Realistic because you should know which task needs how much time.

              For example, if you have 5 blog posts to write and know you can do it in 5 days, don’t give it 15 days. Try to finish it in 5 days.

              So next time you feel like procrastinating, set realistic time frames based on your understanding of each task’s requirements. 

              And don’t wait till the deadline.

            2. Why You’re Not Getting Rich Quickly

              Why You’re Not Getting Rich Quickly

              And what to do about It

              I know you want things to change in your life overnight.

              We all do.

              Whether it’s related to money, fame, or health, we all want it instantly.

              But why don’t we get it so easily?

              Instant success is a myth

              Big changes in life don’t happen in one night. 

              But that’s a dream we all chase. A false hope that has destroyed many ambitions.

              From our childhood, we have been told through TV and ads that things happen fast, but that’s actually not true. 

              You won’t become rich instantly. You won’t leave a bad habit in a day or two. You cannot gain a new habit overnight.

              People who have achieved success in any field have worked hard for a long time. They never took shortcuts. They never believed in the myth of instant success.

              people walking on pedestrian lane during daytime

              How real change happens

              Practice makes you near perfect.

              To see a real change in anything in life we need to practice new habits many times. After practicing it over a long time you will understand the importance of habits.

              At first, you may feel it is difficult to do. But when you do it daily as a habit you will realise it was not as difficult as you first thought it was. 

              Doing things over and over makes them easier.

              To build a habit, patience is needed. 

              We have always heard, that patience is a virtue. Consistent habits are created by being patient and trying our best. Patience helps us to grow in life.

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              Enjoy the journey and not the destination

              Take small steps to get big results. 

              Don’t get overwhelmed by thinking about the result. Yes, you will achieve it but you need to focus on one step at a time. 

              All marathons are completed by taking one step at a time. It’s important to focus on one step and also enjoy the process.

              Set goals that you can reach. 

              This will keep you happy and will motivate you to work hard. 

              You will become a millionaire if that’s your goal but first set a goal of making $1000. Once you achieve this, make another goal of $1500. 

              Smaller goals are easy to achieve and add up to the main bigger goal. 

              person holding black red yellow and green round analog clock

              And after all, we are just humans. Everyone makes mistakes. 

              Even I do every now and then. 

              It’s okay to make mistakes. What’s more important is that you learn from your mistakes. Our mistakes help us to become wiser.

              ‘I have not failed, but found 1000 ways to not make a light bulb’  — Thomas Edison

              So whatever change you are looking for in your life, it’s important that you become patient and take one step at a time. 

              Enjoy the journey before the destination.

            3. Have You Heard About The Red Car Theory?

              Have You Heard About The Red Car Theory?

              Becoming lucky intentionally

              Have you seen any red cars today?

              You probably did.

              If I had told you that I would give you $100 for every red car you noticed today, how many red cars you would have noticed?

              You will probably look for red cars intentionally, right?

              That’s how luck and opportunities work.

              When you are not looking, and you are not aware, opportunities are just passing by.

              To become lucky you have to grab the opportunities by actively looking for them, intentionally.

              Start your day with an intention to notice and grab opportunities that will make you lucky. 

              Keep looking for your red car.

            4. Hack Your Thoughts & Take Control

              Hack Your Thoughts & Take Control

              Reject negative thoughts today

              Learn this one thing ASAP.

              Reject your negative thoughts.

              Many things in life don’t go as we want them to.

              And we keep thinking about it and make up fictional scenarios in our minds.

              We love to think about what wrong things can happen and we plan what we will do when they happen.

              We think 400 new things when 4 things go wrong. We put all of our energy in the wrong place.

              Our minds are a manufacturing factory of thoughts mostly on autopilot.

              We have to take control of our thoughts.

              Reject negative thoughts as only fictional things.

              Whenever a problem comes up, you will see that your mind is sending you a ton of negative thoughts.

              Reject all negative thoughts intentionally. You will notice thoughts will reduce and eventually stop.

              And finally, you will notice the problem was not as big as your thoughts made you feel.

              white and purple heart shaped stone. Reject negative thoughts
            5. Here’s How I Improved My Mental Health

              Here’s How I Improved My Mental Health

              Have you ever felt like your mind has a hundred tabs open? And a few of them are playing music and you don’t know which ones.

              That’s how I used to feel when I ignored my mental health for a long time.

              In our daily routine lives, we usually get busy and forget to take a break. Or we don’t give importance to daily habits which have a big impact on our mental health.

              But why is mental health so important?

              Here’s Why Mental Health is important

              Everything is connected to mental health.

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              Bad mental health affects your sleep and relaxation. This affects your mood and immunity. You become more prone to sickness.

              Lack of sleep also affects your ability to focus. Without focus, you perform badly in your day-to-day tasks including your work or business.

              Do you see where I am going? it’s all interconnected.

              And when you lack focus or become sick all the time it affects your relationships as well. it includes both your family, loved ones, and business or work relationships.

              But what are you doing wrong every day which is affecting your mental health?

              What people do wrong

              We easily overlook small things that have a big impact.

              A man in a leather jacket looking down while sitting on a ledge in a city. Shows bad mental health

              We have forgotten how to relax and take breaks. All of us are in a rush to make more money.

              Whether it’s business or office work, we have become so focused on work that we have forgotten we need a break.

              Prolonged time of just working leads to mental fatigue.

              When you have used your brain too much, it keeps itself active.

              Remember those nights when you can’t sleep and all you can think of is your meetings or next presentation or a sales call?

              Yes, that’s the sign you have overworked your brain. This leads to less sleep and eventually degrades your mental health more.

              Another important thing that most people don’t pay attention to or ignore is healthy food.

              The food you intake is very important as healthy food keeps your brain healthy.

              Your brain gets all the nutrients it needs to function properly under normal conditions or stress.

              But due to work or laziness we often just order fast food which is full of fat and oil and preservatives. These foods lack the essential nutrients and vitamins.

              Ok, so what exactly should I do to fix my mental health? Here’s what I do every day

              What I do

              These are a few daily habits that always help me.

              woman spreading arms near body of water

              A little bit of daily exercise helps a lot. I do long walks or take stairs instead of elevators whenever I can. I also do yoga whenever I can. You can also go to the nearest gym for daily exercise.

              I don’t work without a break. I break my work into smaller tasks. And I make sure to take short breaks between each task. This helps me to focus more and the work doesn’t feel like a burden.

              I eat healthy food. I stick to freshly made home-cooked food. Don’t eat refrigerated food that was prepared a few days back. Most people do that and microwave it every time. Please don’t.

              Try to cook a little every day and eat fresh. And if I have to eat outside then I try to eat more green vegetables and salads or lots of fruits whenever I can. Also, I don’t eat after sunset.

              The last but very important activity is sleep. I go to sleep early and I don’t tend to stay awake late at night.

              And there is always at least a 4 to 5-hour gap between my dinner and sleep time. I don’t go to bed immediately after eating.

              Also, I don’t use my mobile or any screen one hour before sleep. I usually read a book before sleeping. If the book is boring then you will fall asleep much faster.


              I hope these tips help you. Try these daily habits and you will see the results in a few days or weeks.

              If you think I missed anything or if you have any suggestions then please let me know in the comments.